Dommr gives dominants, submissives, and clients the tools to build authentic, structured dynamics — tasks, contracts, meetups, kink compatibility, and more. All in one private space.
Must be 18+. All users age-verified by our team.
Whether you lead, serve, or seek, Dommr gives you a dedicated space designed around your role.
Manage your submissives with precision. Assign tasks, write contracts, track compliance, book meetups with clients, and maintain full control of your dynamics.
Stay accountable, engaged, and connected to your dominant. View your tasks, log compliance, read your contract, and explore your kink profile — all in one place.
Connect with professional dominants for in-person sessions. Browse, book, and manage your meetups with ease. Leave private reviews for the experiences you'll never forget.
We built every feature with real dynamics in mind. No fluff, no distractions.
Kink checklists, consent profiles, safeword storage, and SSC/RACK framework selection — consent is built into the core.
Daily tasks, one-time assignments, session rituals. Subs log compliance with photos/videos. Doms see breach alerts.
Write custom clauses, set versions, require sub acknowledgement. Full digital signature records with timestamps.
Book, confirm, and track in-person sessions. Clients rate and review experiences privately.
Our kink overlap and boundary alignment algorithm gives both partners a detailed compatibility score.
Encrypted messaging between linked partners and approved clients. File and media sharing included.
Doms set standing rules per sub. Consequences documented. Subs always know what is expected.
Formally record punishments issued and privileges granted. Track completion and history.
Your AI co-dominant. DI™ drafts task instructions, writes nightly infraction reports on missed obligations, and suggests personalised rewards at compliance milestones.
Report abusive behaviour, block users, and our admin team reviews every age verification personally.
DI™ is your AI co-dominant. It watches your dynamics around the clock — drafting tasks, flagging breaches, and recognising your sub's dedication — so you never miss a moment that matters.
Assign a standing order and DI instantly drafts a detailed, personalised task instruction tailored to your sub — saved and ready to publish in one click.
When a sub fails a standing order, DI writes a formal infraction report overnight and surfaces it for your review — including the full punishment history for that sub.
DI tracks compliance streaks on every standing order. At 7, 14, and 30-day milestones it drafts a personalised reward suggestion for you to approve and grant.
Infraction Report — Morning Protocol
jade_sub failed to complete their morning ritual on 3 consecutive days. This marks the 2nd recorded breach of this obligation.
14-Day Streak — Evening Reflection
DI suggests: "Extended Free Evening" — jade_sub has shown exceptional consistency. Consider granting an unscheduled evening of personal time.
DOM Intelligence™ is available on the Pro plan.
Every user is age-verified by a human admin before gaining full access. We have a zero-tolerance policy for non-consensual behaviour. Our reporting system and block features give every member control over their experience.
Human Age Verification
Every ID is reviewed by our team. No automated systems cutting corners.
Report & Block
Instantly block anyone. Reports are confidential and reviewed within 24 hours.
Consent Documentation
Safewords, hard limits, and consent versions are stored and timestamped.
Join Dommr today. Private, secure, and built for the lifestyle — not against it.
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